The Life Of Brian (Again)

[loveless]

Brian Wilson literally says the darnedest things.

[loveless]

Also...

“She said to me, ‘Music is his first love,’” Ms. Banks said. “‘Nothing can replace it. It’s his being, it’s his essence, it’s his everything. So I’m settling for second, but it’s a pretty good — it’s a pretty good second.’”

I mean, if you love Brian's work (as I assuredly do), it's very easy to see this as a deeply romantic and noble state of existence (and acceptance!)...(and also, if your life's work is to create music...is this or is this not a virtuous state?).

If you are antipathetical to him and his work, it probably comes off very differently.

[loveless]

americansongwriter.com/beach-boys-mike-love-al-jardine-share-heartfelt-condolences-following-the-death-of-brian-wilsons-wife/

Contentious, antagonistic, raging prick or no, it would be difficult to interpret Love's words as coming from anywhere other than a place of deep feeling:

Dear Brian,

Our hearts are completely broken upon hearing about Melinda's untimely passing. I want you to know how deeply cherished you are and that you are surrounded by an ocean of love during this trying time, with Jacquelyne and me right by your side.

Brian, we have so many wonderful life memories that warm my heart. I remember being there at your wedding to Melinda, witnessing the growth of your family – from just the two of you to a home of five children, in addition to the radiant Carnie & Wendy.

And then, there were the ecstatic highs of our 50th Anniversary tour. I still recall how Melinda and Jacquelyne poured their hearts and souls into organizing over 70 shows, bringing untold happiness to our fans.

Through all life's highs and lows, including the loss of Dennis, Carl, and our parents - one thing remains constant: we are family, and I will always be there for you.

Facing this immense loss is undoubtedly one of our most challenging times, but as your cousin, I've witnessed firsthand how our music and togetherness have carried us through the toughest moments. In your deepest grief, Brian, remember that you are wrapped in love, always and unconditionally.

Jacquelyne and I want you to know we are here to support you in any way you need. We will always remember Melinda lovingly, for loving you.

May Melinda rest in eternal peace and harmony. 🙏

Remember the love,
Mike & Jacquelyne

[Stacy Heydon]

Feb 1, 2024 11:49:18 GMT loveless said:

americansongwriter.com/beach-boys-mike-love-al-jardine-share-heartfelt-condolences-following-the-death-of-brian-wilsons-wife/

Contentious, antagonistic, raging prick or no, it would be difficult to interpret Love's words as coming from anywhere other than a place of deep feeling:

Why make it public though?

[Charlie O.]

Feb 1, 2024 12:03:45 GMT Stacy Heydon said:

Feb 1, 2024 11:49:18 GMT loveless said:

americansongwriter.com/beach-boys-mike-love-al-jardine-share-heartfelt-condolences-following-the-death-of-brian-wilsons-wife/

Contentious, antagonistic, raging prick or no, it would be difficult to interpret Love's words as coming from anywhere other than a place of deep feeling:

Why make it public though?

My first thought.

[Sneelock]

maybe he doesn't take his phone calls? emails? texts? etc??
I wouldn't!

still, they've GOT to have a weird love/hate thing. I mean, the main reason Love got his first big publishing payday was because Brian sat on the stand and said "yes" every time they asked him about Love's lyrical contributions.

I gotta say. it's the least dickish thing I've seen Mike Love say for a long time. maybe somebody else wrote it?

[Charlie O.]

Brian Wilson Placed Under Conservatorship Amid Dementia Battle

[adamcoan]

I don't care for the music of the beach boys at all. I do however hope that whatever is happening to Brian

he can still hear teenage symphonies to God in his head.

[riggers]

Feb 16, 2024 19:20:37 GMT adamcoan said:

I don't care for the music of the beach boys at all. I do however hope that whatever is happening to Brian

he can still hear teenage symphonies to God in his head.

I'm sure he will. It's one of the last things to go. That Glen Campbell doc from a few years ago showed him struggling to remember basic everyday things, but still able to remember his hits and play astonishing guitar solos
I worked with dementia sufferers about 20 years ago and music always brought them happiness. Kind of comforting to know.

[davey]

Feb 16, 2024 20:52:39 GMT riggers said:

Feb 16, 2024 19:20:37 GMT adamcoan said:

I don't care for the music of the beach boys at all. I do however hope that whatever is happening to Brian

he can still hear teenage symphonies to God in his head.

I'm sure he will. It's one of the last things to go. That Glen Campbell doc from a few years ago showed him struggling to remember basic everyday things, but still able to remember his hits and play astonishing guitar solos
I worked with dementia sufferers about 20 years ago and music always brought them happiness. Kind of comforting to know.

I work with folks with dementia too. You are correct. Almost every part of the brain is involved in processing music. So no matter what specific part of an individual’s brain is degrading via dementia, whatever is left that IS functioning also has a relationship to music.

I’ve seen amazing things… folks who don’t remember their loved one’s names who can still remember the lyrics to old songs they used to love, etc…