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Post by tory on Jul 12, 2019 11:30:47 GMT
If JC got a girl he wouldn't be on here, FACT.
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Post by Mr. FOLLARD on Jul 12, 2019 11:32:28 GMT
A nicer version of the old BCB line about regular posters 'needing a shag'.
Minnie's favourite, until she found love herself.
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Post by Reactionary Rage on Jul 12, 2019 11:36:41 GMT
I was matched with someone this morning whose profile said something like 'I love all kinds of live music, comedy, and theatre'. I said 'doesn't it depend on what kind of live performance? sometimes they're awful' - and I was promptly unmatched. Ho hum.
That's just stoopid. Sounds like a minefield.
Take care mate x
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Post by Mr. FOLLARD on Jul 12, 2019 11:46:55 GMT
Thanks. I'm honestly not arsed about it all right now.
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Post by tory on Jul 12, 2019 12:26:14 GMT
If you are fussed, it is a good age to be. Much more women than men in the 50+ dating market for a fact. Plus priorities change and romance can be it's own thing rather than having to adhere to the big thing it is in your 20s and 30s. Put simply, people are generally more relaxed and accommodating.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2019 15:21:54 GMT
Very satisfied lol Who's the white wigger dick that's a sex machine to all the chicks? Sloop! DAMN RIGHT Can you dig it?
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Post by bakagaijin on Jul 17, 2019 16:27:41 GMT
John, I don't know about your neck o' the woods, but the Bay Area is crawling with single, older women. The volume is here, but I just don't like putting up with all the bullshit that goes with dating. My high school reunion is in September and one of the main factors I'm thinking about going is there will be lots of single women there. That's the sort of thing I'd avoid! but good luck! My sister's kids have sussed me - they say I'm not really interested in dating and would run a mile if any of these women expressed serious interest. Come to Japan, I can set you up. You'd do well here!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2019 18:56:42 GMT
That's the sort of thing I'd avoid! but good luck! My sister's kids have sussed me - they say I'm not really interested in dating and would run a mile if any of these women expressed serious interest. Come to Japan, I can set you up. You'd do well here! John Coan - Big in Japan
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Post by Mr. FOLLARD on May 29, 2020 9:48:09 GMT
Big in China!
I've been inundated recently. I think it's something to do with Tinder changing their settings so that everyone can match with anyone, anywhere in the world. So it's all 'good morning sir! what is the situation in your country right now? in China everything is fine'. And this is at 4 am...
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Post by Reactionary Rage on Dec 7, 2022 14:16:54 GMT
They’re a complete joke.
I honestly cannot believe how much of a shitshow they are
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Post by Mr. FOLLARD on Dec 7, 2022 14:32:50 GMT
Yep.
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Post by Reactionary Rage on Dec 7, 2022 14:47:02 GMT
Tinder is just a joke. How many women have those stupid filters or are pouting so hard you could stick their face to a car window like one of those Garfield toys you used to get in the 80s? Ridiculous.
I tried Hinge and Bumble but you can't even email women. I knew the odds are against you these days unless you're George Clooney or something but sheesh! These apps ask you what your fucking pronouns are. The women largely seem to be clones of each other.
It's depressing, debasing. Maybe Match might be different but I cannot be arsed with any of this bollocks at the moment.
The modern world eh?
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Post by Reactionary Rage on Dec 7, 2022 14:50:20 GMT
And the cost of these things! One was like 80quid a month!
Maybe you have to pay to get the most out of 'em.
I'm on that okcupid and I have 40 odd likes but nae cunt messages so what do you do?
Ugh!
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Post by Mr. FOLLARD on Dec 7, 2022 14:56:16 GMT
There are so many things wrong with all of them. I really honestly don't know why I'm still bothering with them. Scams and catfishing all the way, especially on Tinder which is easily the worst. Maybe twice a year I might get a 'proper' match, but they're usually 200 miles away - and the conversation fizzles out after I find out they're into 'gym workouts'.
I'm finding women tend to use filters a lot les now than they did three or four years ago, but you still get bunny ears, oversized spectacles, or 'cute' stamped all over their face. The worst is when they post a GROUP photo - like, who am I supposed to be looking at here? or a picture of a CAR, for fuck's sake!
Loads of matches with beautiful African women and I think they're genuine in as much as they're real people looking for relationships, but they usually want you to be their daddy - if you get me. But I've actually had some nice conversations with some of them.
Bumble is the best app I've found, but that's only relative. It's still mostly a waste of time.
You need to go out and find women if you're really interested. In some ways it's reassuring that that's the best way. If you're 25, handsome and randy then I guess Tinder is your friend. But it's not for us.
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Post by Reactionary Rage on Dec 7, 2022 15:10:45 GMT
You need to go out and find women if you're really interested. In some ways it's reassuring that that's the best way. If you're 25, handsome and randy then I guess Tinder is your friend. But it's not for us. Yeah. Maybe Match will be better. I used that for a month and had 12 dates off it including meeting the ex. But that was over a decade ago and I was young and fresh faced then. I suspect you have to pay and really work at it to get attention but it's not a fucking job interview. I dunno man, I know options decrease as you get older but using these things doesn't half make you feel disconnected from people.
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